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My kids were young.I was the typical stay at home mom. I was working all of the PTA fundraisers, running the Girls Scout Brownie troop, which I ran like it was some kind of army boot camp.
I was desperately trying to become just like
Martha Stewart. I wanted to be
“The PERFECT WIFE & MOTHER”.
I was in the throes of MOMMY MODE!

Then something happened,
I learned how to Orgasm.

It was purely accidental. I had never been able to do that before! Where did it come from? Why did it all of a sudden show up? I was dazed and confused, only knowing that I didn’t want it to disappear because it was astonishing.

That’s when my world changed, or started to change.

It was something of my own. Something so very personal and so secret no one could control it or change it or take it away from me. I was the master and it was my pet. It made me feel extraordinarily powerful.

I had no clue how to quench this new thirst. I just knew that there had to be others like me. So I started the path to find my kind, the sexual fiends that could give me the answers I needed and the touches I wanted. I didn’t start out looking to be a swinger it, much like the orgasm, happened by accident.

With this new female power I was wielding, I was determined to speak up and share one of my fantasies with my husband. After few drinks, I shared the fact I wanted a threesome. His response was “Ok! Let’s do it!” (He rarely denied me anything.) I did name him Perverted Pete for a reason.

So, two thumbs up for this sexual adventure, I began to go shopping. Where do you think you find a third to join your bed? Not at the supermarket! The internet! It was a new and wide open space for all kinds of dirty. Safe within the walls of my own home, with no prying eyes, I surfed.

I stumbled on a swinger site chat room. I sat quietly and just read what they wrote. I learned they had rules, and they all seemed so comfortable about talking about sex and their experiences. I began to show up in that chat room more and more often. Slowly, after some time, I began to speak and to ask questions. I began to make friends. I felt I had at least found an outlet for what made me feel like an outcast.

I learned about the secret world of swinging and I felt I belong in it. I felt I could rule it!

And in time I did. I became a kind of ambassador of swing. But that comes later in the journey. We are just at the start so I won’t jump ahead.

This was the road I started on…

I did get my threesome. I found a single guy in the swingers chat room. He looked exactly like the guy Steve from Blue’s Clues the kids show, but really well built. Yea, I would grin every time that show came on!

The night was not at all what I had expected. As I bolted down the stairs to my party, in my extreme excited state, I muttered …”Let’s get ready to rumble”. With both men, very nervous this was not the best choice on my part.

As much as I tried to get them to relax, I just couldn’t get them to. That’s when I realized I could intimidate men. That was a good tool to put in my tool box.

I also learned that night that you have to roll with the flow and fun is the first priority, not the end result. We played a bit but nothing major happened. That’s just how it goes.I’m a big wise ass and when we finally all gave up, I ordered pizza with sausage and pepperoni. Yep! TWO kinds of meat! Then joked with the boys as we ate it about how this was the only double meat I was getting!

This eased us in to the world of swinging. I continued to make friends online and then later joined a private swinger club. Where we had many wonderful sexual adventures.In time, I started my own swinger’s educational website that was designed to teach safe play, the rules and so much more that needed to be shared. It was a popular well visited site. I ran it for many years.

Rebecca
*Still always ready to rumble, or to order a two meat pizza.